tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28862280916620532302024-03-05T10:34:16.195-05:00The "Hills" of ChaosHillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.comBlogger282125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-8850379109464489902011-05-19T11:52:00.001-04:002011-05-19T11:52:54.833-04:00Lose Weight Dammit!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://torinelson.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/im_with_frumpy_tshirt-p235189508610448080lxq0_400.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://torinelson.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/im_with_frumpy_tshirt-p235189508610448080lxq0_400.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>"Lose weight, dammit." Yep, this is what I say to myself every morning as I stare into the depths of the evil mirror. "Mirror, Mirror on the wall. Who's the frumpiest of them all." Again, that would be me.<br />
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Normally, I say these words and then do nothing. I loathe myself as I crawl through yet another day of stagnant activity and over indulgent eating.<br />
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So this morning, I finally ventured off to the gym, for the first time in months. My clients will just have to wait. I need this for me, except the entire time I'm trudging through the workout, I'm looking around comparing myself to every other person in the room. "At least I'm not like that guy." "Oh, I wonder if she has kids. Nah, probably not, she looks too darn good." "I hope I look like her when I'm that age." "Yikes, it could be worse."<br />
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It's funny. In high school, it was the popular girls and magazine models that were the measurement for my self worth (physically at least). Of course, that ship has sailed. Now, I find myself envying non-moms or those who freakishly and miraculously revert back to cuteness 10 seconds after they give birth. Just look at their stretch free skin and perky boobs. Maybe my goal should be to simply not look like a mom. <br />
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Reality check, ladies. I am never going to look a 22 year old again. Ironically though, until recently, I was still hanging on to my size 2, extra tiny pre-pregnancy clothes. Even if I did get back down to my former weight, a good 20 lbs from where I am now, my form is so drastically different, they'll never fit the same. Off they went to the Goodwill. It was a sad and dreary day when I let go of pre-existence and embraced the reality of my forever frumpiness.<br />
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However, just because I'm never going to look like a super model or even a B-list celebrity, it doesn't mean I have to walk around unhealthy and self-loathing. If I don't like what I see, I should stop the laziness and put my butt in motion, literally.<br />
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So I thought I'd throw out an idea to my fellow supermoms. Why not be each other's accountability? Whether you are doing Weight Watchers or another diet program (names of which have completely left my brain), planning on working out at the Y on on your Wii Fit, let's support one another; help each other reach our goals. What do you say? You in?Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-14112099260876471402011-05-06T07:18:00.000-04:002011-05-06T07:18:19.318-04:00Frappachino Happy Hour All This Week<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://lsnyder.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/starbucks-frapp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://lsnyder.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/starbucks-frapp.jpg" width="185" /></a></div>Drop by a <a href="http://www.starbucks.com/">Starbucks</a> between 3 - 5 pm each day between now and May 15th for half price However-You-Want-It Frappachinos. It's like they knew it was my birthday this week. So sweet of them to honor me like that. Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-60043563596435337682011-05-05T16:26:00.001-04:002011-05-05T16:37:43.652-04:00Just the Motivation I Need<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table>Side Note: Madison got her cast off today. Okay, now continue. <br />
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First of all, let me apologize for not being the diligent blogger I once was. I guess when I started writing for <a href="http://www.catonsville.patch.com/">Patch</a>, I allowed my personal blog to fall to the wayside. It's funny how that happens. The other mitigating factor is that <a href="http://www.strategicvictoryconsulting.com/">Strategic Victory</a>, my company, has been exploding with new business. I've barely been able to keep my head above water in this new life as stay-at-home, work-at-home, work-out-of-the-home mom. <br />
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However, not matter how busy life gets, I can't forget about my escape hatch, which just happens to be writing. It's a release for me, a sanctuary of sorts. When Penny, my editor at Patch, told me that they were going to be linking to local blog sites, I thought this might be the motivation I need to get back into blogging regularly.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Madison's uber curly hair and bag over her cast. </td></tr>
</tbody></table>And look at this...here I am, blogging. I'm not even going to try and catch you up on the last three months. It would impossible and probably quite boring actually. But here's a brief recap: SVC (my company) took on 12 new clients. Blake finally stopped peeing in his pants (almost). I worked for Senator Jennings in Annapolis during Session. Madison broke her arm and we didn't know it for almost a day. We drove 18 hours to Florida for our first Spring Break ever. We took on an intern at SVC. Nana & Papa kept Madison and Blake at their house for a week giving Neil and I almost kid free time. My princess is one tough cookie and my middle child seems to be the wimpy one of the lot. Neil went camping with a bunch of guys from church, giving him two weekends of fun in one month. The first was a kayaking festival.<br />
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What else? Who knows? I can barely remember yesterday, much less highlights from the last 3 months. The point is, I'm back...now let's hope I can stay that way.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-11610360570634540352011-02-15T07:50:00.000-05:002011-02-15T07:51:00.890-05:00Pampered Chef Fundraiser<p>What a great way to help raise money for <a href="http://www.meetup.com/more-than-moms" target="_blank">More than Moms</a>.  We come, we shop, we get great kitchen and dining tools, and MTM gets a check.  How much easier can it be?</p> <p>When Tiffany, one of our sponsors, called and asked if we could do a show on the 21st, I asked if we could do it as a fundraiser even though we don't have tax exempt status.  She said as long as we have a checking account and are recognized at the state level, we're good to go.  Check and check!!!</p> <p><strong>Here's how it works:</strong>  we'll have a normal cooking show, food to sample, recipes to take home, and products to test out.  Then 10 - 15% of our total sales come back to us in the form of a check. <strong>So it's key to not only get as many people as we can to my house on the 21st, but we need to spread the word, have friends and neighbors order online, circulate it around Facebook and Twitter, and whatever we can think of to increase our sales. </strong></p> <p>Check out TIffany's website to see the newest catalog.  <a href="http://www.pamperedchef.biz/tpc2006">http://www.pamperedchef.biz/tpc2006</a> <strong>You can order online if you can't make the party.</strong>  So can your friends and family, even if they live far, far away. Just put in <strong>More than Moms</strong> as the organization/host. </p> <p>Let's make this first fundraiser a big one. </p> <p>Also, check out the guest special for February.  It's AWESOME! Think Free Batter Bowl.</p> <p><a href="http://www.pamperedchef.biz/skins/sites/pdf/en_US/gs_11feb_en_us.pdf">http://www.pamperedchef.biz/skins/sites/pdf/en_US/gs_11feb_en_us.pdf</a></p> Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-18378371034377188472011-02-01T07:58:00.001-05:002011-02-01T07:58:44.791-05:00Snow, Snow Go Away, Don’t Come Again Some Other Day<p>As a thin layer of ice covers the region, yet another school day is delayed.  I’m starting to think we may never get back to normal.  I should be thankful that we haven’t been hit with back to back blizzards, but these incessant, miniscule storms that continue to wreak havoc on my semblance of routine are just about to drive me crazy.  </p> <p>Am I alone in this?  Sure, as a kid, I’d live for these days, especially in Georgia where they were rare to say the least.  However, as an adult, as a parent, I’m really starting to resent the onset of winter precipitation.  I find myself cursing the weathermen when they even hint at a winter storm watch, praying as I lay my head down at night that I’ll wake up to find they were dead wrong. </p> <p>I’m a work-at-home (most of the time) mom with three kids and to-do list the size of Mount Kilimanjaro.   Schedules are important, not just for me but for the kids as well.  When nature calls for a shake up, I find myself scrambling to manage the chaos that ensues. I guess that makes the name of my blog a bit like a premonition.  It really is the Hills of Chaos, huh?  </p> <p>At the same time, I have to remember that my first priority is to my family, my husband and my kids.  Sure, being a mother comes with certain super powers, but controlling the weather is not one of them. The to-do list will have to wait. </p> <p>On days like this, I have to redefine my idea of productivity.  If I can make it to the end of the day without having inflicted intense emotional damage on my children, then I say that’s one successfully productive day.  </p> <p>So enough blogging for now.  I think it’s time to build one magnificent fort in the basement.  I’m sure my boys will lead the charge.  </p> Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-41350266735136835332011-01-19T13:33:00.001-05:002011-01-19T13:33:28.818-05:00Hillary and Betsy Go Viral<p><img style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto" src="http://www.explorebaltimorecounty.com/photographs/8268_db2e5d9afac95ab2e1f7ffe88b974634_center.jpg" /></p> <p>Okay, maybe we haven’t hit the big time quite yet, but this article in the <a href="http://www.explorebaltimorecounty.com/business/110880/women-find-victory-launch-own-marketing-firm/" target="_blank">Catonsville/Arbutus Times</a> is a good start.  Lauren Fullbright, a journalist for Patuxent Publishing came out and interviewed us in early December, wanting to tell the story of how we went from political activists to business owners.  We were super excited to see it published in today’s paper.  </p> <p>Betsy and I have been continuously involved in every aspect of the grassroots movement in Baltimore County for the past 18 or so months.  Last July, we started <a href="www.strategicvictoryconsulting.com" target="_blank">Strategic Victory Consulting</a> in which we offer marketing and event solutions for small businesses and political organizations.  </p> <p>At the core we’re writers.  Through the Whisler Campaign and efforts within the <a href="www.patapscovalleygop.com" target="_blank">PVRC</a>, we’ve learned to take our skill sets to the next level by using free media and email marketing to not only promote political candidates but also small businesses and nonprofit organizations.  </p> <p>We love what we do and feel extremely blessed to be able to assist people and businesses that we’ve come to respect.  We just want to see us all succeed.  </p> <p>Photo courtesy of <a href="www.philgrout.com" target="_blank">Phil Grout</a>.</p> Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-34189923172525285662011-01-10T10:05:00.000-05:002011-01-10T10:10:17.446-05:00There’s a First Time for Everything<p>Here I am sitting in a Starbucks in Annapolis waiting for my first day of work to begin.  It’s nerve racking really.  You’d think a confident woman such as myself would be geared up and raring to go, but walking into a completely new situation has put me a bit off kilter.  Driving down 97, I suddenly realized that I had absolutely no idea where I was going.  I’ve never been to the State House before, except to gather on a lawn with a few thousand fellow Marylanders to voice our concerns for high taxes and forced healthcare.  </p> <p>So I called Nicole, a fellow Jennings team member, to direct me to a parking garage.  Turns out I’m a little early as no one is scheduled to be in the office until after 10.  Oops.  It’s all good though, I found my way to a Starbucks after driving around Church Circle a few times.  Now I’m settled in jotting down my thoughts before heading to Maryland’s own little Capitol Hill. </p> <p>To be perfectly honest, I have no idea what to expect.  Nothing like a new situation to stir up all this unsettling emotions.  It’s not the same as walking into a <a href="http://catonsville.patch.com/search?keywords=tony+campbell" target="_blank">Central Committee</a>  or PVRC, where I know 90% of the people, where I’m familiar with my surroundings, where I know what to expect.  Nope, this is entirely different.  </p> <p>Granted, I’m totally blessed to be working with the likes of Senator JB Jennings.  Plus the fact that I already know half of his staff, like Rich Reinhardt and Nicole Ossola, is a much appreciated bonus, especially considering I don’t think I know anyone else in Annapolis.  </p> <p>Here come to the self doubting questions: Am I dressed okay?  Do I stand out like a french fry on dieter’s plate? Am I going to say something completely up surd and become defined by my stupidity? </p> <p>Give me a week or two and this whole process will become second nature.  I do tend to adapt well to new situations.  Let’s just hope I can fake my way through these first few moments.  You know us women; we’re good at faking things.  Not that we always have to, but it’s nice to know that we have that innate skill.  </p> <p>Session starts Wednesday, which is my first official day.  This, this is simply orientation, and who’s suppose to know what their doing during orientation, right?  I’m taking this morning to get my bearings straight.  Come Wednesday I plan to be an old pro, or at the least, ready to pretend like I am.</p> <p>So here goes nothing.  Watch out Annapolis.  Hillary is here and I’ve decided to take you by storm.  </p> Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-26081569051557676832011-01-07T16:51:00.000-05:002011-01-07T16:51:39.111-05:00I Got A Job, or Should I Say Another Job?As if I don't do enough, right? Actually it's quite perfect and fits right into my evil plan to someday conquer the world. I know y'all think I do too much already, but this really does fit into my master plan. That is, it would, if I had one. So I'll stop beating around the bush and get to the point. I've been offered a job working one day a week for <a href="http://www.jbjennings.com/">State Senator JB Jennings</a> down in Annapolis. I start next week.<br />
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I'll pause for y'all to recover from the shock and awe. <br />
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This is an amazing opportunity for me to grow professionally, both in experience and contacts. We all know that in politics, it's not so much about what you know but who you know and their opinion of you. I don't make the rules, I just hope to benefit from them. Of course, taking this job is not without it's sacrifices. <br />
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I had to, hold your breath, find childcare. There, I said it. Me, the epitome of a stay at home mom, who, granted, never stays at home, but you get my drift. Even Neil said, "I thought you were dead set against putting the kids in childcare." I am, and I'm not. What I can say? I'm a conflicted woman. <br />
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But this situation works out quite perfectly. I was able to find a friend, a fellow mom, who was willing to come up every Wednesday and watch my kids. Here's hoping we're still friends after she spends some quality time with my beloved monsters. I'll be the first to admit that my kiddos can be a handful (or two). <br />
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Of course, by the time I pay for childcare, gas and taxes, I won't actually be bringing home much money, but my main purpose is more about building up my knowledge and contact base. And I'm selfishly hoping to bring more exposure to <a href="http://www.strategicvictoryconsulting.com/">Strategic Victory</a> in the process. In fact, that's really the end goal, to build up the business. <br />
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So what will I be doing? I'm not entirely sure, but I know I'll be opening mail and packages, which freaked my mom after yesterday's<a href="http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/01/07/fiery-packages-maryland-mailrooms-alert/"> little scare</a>. Speaking of, I love when my Fox News picks up a local story. Between the weather and suspicious packages, my mom must think we live in a war zone up here. But that's not all I'll be doing. I'll have the unique pleasure of handling communication efforts, which is quite perfect because I happen to be an excellent communicator (at least some of the time). <br />
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Enough news for the day. I've already over extended myself with two posts in one day, give that I haven't posted otherwise in over a month. Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-30270072676635221092011-01-07T16:06:00.003-05:002011-01-07T16:14:03.896-05:00Merry Belated Christmas and Happy New Year<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">What’s up folks? Mommy put me, Blake, in charge of the Christmas Letter. Be prepared for one bumpy and chaotic ride. I’m not exactly a focused child, except when it comes to watching He-man. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4RMunNR284TgOtnUwbTLmOFA-Gy6oeaNOPRlzMvInkIaOxdvHMra2ICHqQ7LwwDQD6Kx0ph8rASwL-BB2kuoVQE7roWeofOJJF9pp9Ba1mCc_yJfGSE7SZaejabQPPH4pWlzOyq_z6hg/s1600/kasey+caruthers+photography+323.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4RMunNR284TgOtnUwbTLmOFA-Gy6oeaNOPRlzMvInkIaOxdvHMra2ICHqQ7LwwDQD6Kx0ph8rASwL-BB2kuoVQE7roWeofOJJF9pp9Ba1mCc_yJfGSE7SZaejabQPPH4pWlzOyq_z6hg/s320/kasey+caruthers+photography+323.JPG" width="212" /></a></div><span style="font-size: small;">Let’s see. We started out the year being buried under snow. Owen and I thought it was pretty stinkin’ cool. We made a huge slide in the front yard for all the kids in the neighborhood to play on. It was taller than all of us combined. Madison and Mommy preferred to stay inside; their loss. Daddy taught us how to shovel, which was super cool. Bottom line: we like snow.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOJ-N2syyQa3rr73OQFgd21efo2fPgBdWMCd0J8Jkd69lnM4ufeYND2UWfRfyTtxmDPmSQl0pvh6wDSRO1tE4llBT6mAiSzjgle0s8pKZpktku1FDLZMLJXADSXnJtpEi9yaVf4aqEXxI/s1600/kasey+caruthers+photography+193+-+Copy.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOJ-N2syyQa3rr73OQFgd21efo2fPgBdWMCd0J8Jkd69lnM4ufeYND2UWfRfyTtxmDPmSQl0pvh6wDSRO1tE4llBT6mAiSzjgle0s8pKZpktku1FDLZMLJXADSXnJtpEi9yaVf4aqEXxI/s320/kasey+caruthers+photography+193+-+Copy.JPG" width="212" /></a><span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="font-size: small;">After we dug out, like in May, Nana and Papa came up and built a ginormous fort in the backyard. Too bad they took off with us before we could break it in. Mommy and Daddy had almost an entire week without us. It’s the least we could do for them. We like them. Then Mommy came down, after a pit stop to see her old friends, Jo and Ang. She picked us up and whisked us away to Grandma’s house in Florida. Guess what? She lives at the beach. We all liked playing in the sand, but there was no way I was going in the water. That’s just silly. Grandma drove back with us and we arrived just in time for my third birthday party. All my friends came over to play on our new fort and they brought me tons of presents. I really like presents. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKSMZtBKdePNrrxW7LmYgqz0vl3q68P9HzyO84m4EIVV-iV0qRyaBPF2H9c-qE6w6enEX8OSTdi8Z28pKZZzMjOAJGI137qWaEZhv6Y6APinAcsln3gCuWz6zsO49D1OIuXjSLTSOAf6o/s1600/kasey+caruthers+photography+250.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKSMZtBKdePNrrxW7LmYgqz0vl3q68P9HzyO84m4EIVV-iV0qRyaBPF2H9c-qE6w6enEX8OSTdi8Z28pKZZzMjOAJGI137qWaEZhv6Y6APinAcsln3gCuWz6zsO49D1OIuXjSLTSOAf6o/s320/kasey+caruthers+photography+250.JPG" width="320" /></a><span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="font-size: small;">During the summer, we headed to Ocean City with our friends Betsy and Paul. It’s the first time we’ve been to a Maryland beach. It looked the same as the one at Grandmas and I still didn’t go near the water. Mommy and Betsy spent a lot of time talking about some business thingy. When we got back, they started it up. It’s called Strategic Victory Consulting and they help out small businesses and political organizations (whatever those are). Mommy calls herself a work-at-home mom now, which is weird because we thought she already was, what with her mom’s group and neighborhood association. Oh and let’s not forget her politicking on the Whisler campaign (he lost, by the way). She was also elected to the Republican Central Committee. Again, it’s all Greek to me, but it makes her happy. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyMs7lzaZUcr9ETraSzL4JjNLxAhrCDM1IUbvzb34rCFhPjrwoatr7GptWBHhi1Srq0jKCbzsugdOz9KVo_SPbqkw7qVQZJEhzb2SFN4_0yur14ZdUXRsSUbjQ2faU-AVxhgbW2EJaKPU/s1600/kasey+caruthers+photography+192+copy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyMs7lzaZUcr9ETraSzL4JjNLxAhrCDM1IUbvzb34rCFhPjrwoatr7GptWBHhi1Srq0jKCbzsugdOz9KVo_SPbqkw7qVQZJEhzb2SFN4_0yur14ZdUXRsSUbjQ2faU-AVxhgbW2EJaKPU/s320/kasey+caruthers+photography+192+copy.jpg" width="212" /></a><span style="font-size: small;">Daddy stays busy as well. He actually got to go kayaking more this year, not as much as he wanted to, but enough. Owen and I actually got to go with him once. It was awesome. I see a future there. Daddy also took us camping for the first time ever, leaving Mommy and Madison to fend for themselves. You know, seeing how Mommy used to practically live outdoors, she’s become quite the home body. We’ll break her out of it sooner or later. Daddy, on the other hand, really is an outdoorsman. I want to be like him when I grow up. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">As fall approached, it was time for school. Owen started Kindergarten. It’s weird not having him around all the time. However, I got to go to preschool this year with Mrs. Gail. I’ve made tons of new friends and finally got over my fear of swimming. Now I jump in all by myself. Madison doesn’t get to go to school yet. She’s too little, but she does get to hang out with Mommy all by herself. I’m a wee bit jealous, but I’ll get over it.</span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKxzk5x6qYoNbWO0m43UcywSbDj98vHXfENfqYLGbvTYOi5UjcgvTzT9O2l8iE6oj7WvKZgTySVzhcuW73rRvSyPw0REL4x4DtRxHlNX9wLp5XXrpOZ54xV6UFV38AU7gVQxcWfds2lAg/s1600/kasey+caruthers+photography+266.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKxzk5x6qYoNbWO0m43UcywSbDj98vHXfENfqYLGbvTYOi5UjcgvTzT9O2l8iE6oj7WvKZgTySVzhcuW73rRvSyPw0REL4x4DtRxHlNX9wLp5XXrpOZ54xV6UFV38AU7gVQxcWfds2lAg/s320/kasey+caruthers+photography+266.JPG" width="320" /></a><span style="font-size: small;">Now we’ve come full circle. We’re cuddled up on the couch, sipping hot cocoa and watching the snow fall once again. It’s almost Christmas and Santa will be coming soon, but that’s not the most important part. Christmas is all about baby Jesus who came to be my friend and live in my heart. Santa brings presents to me just like those wise men brought presents to Jesus. If I were Jesus, I’d rather have a Tonka truck than gold, incense and myrrh, but that’s just because I don’t know what those things are. Maybe Jesus liked to play with them. </span></div><div align="right" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;"> From All of Us to All of You, Merry Christmas. See you in 2011. </span></div><div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Pennington’s </span></div>Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-24959883371175325242010-11-30T09:32:00.000-05:002010-11-30T09:32:55.156-05:00Family Photo Time<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs976.snc4/76901_171866279501170_140299869324478_440545_2023404_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs976.snc4/76901_171866279501170_140299869324478_440545_2023404_n.jpg" width="212" /></a></div>I'm done with studio photo sessions. Done I tell you. Every year we pack up the children and head to whatever studio has the best offers, and every year I wonder why we did it. The posed shots never turn out as you quite hope. In fact, most of the time we end up sending out our Christmas card with some random candid shot taken by a friend, an unposed shot that captures a more realistic view of our family. You know, the one that embodies the dysfunctional chaos of our lives. So then what's the point of going to Target or JCPenny's in the first place? My point exactly. <br />
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This year we did something a bit different. We scheduled a session with a friend of our who happens to also be a photographer. Actually Betsy and I hired her to do some professional head shots for Strategic Victory and thought we'd throw in some family photos as well. So on Sunday, we gathered our families at a beautiful stone church right in Catonsville and let Kasey perform her magic. I haven't seen all of them yet, but from what I have seen, I'm certainly pleased. And for the price, not even Target could beat it. <br />
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This might seem like an advertisement for <a href="http://www.kaseycaruthers.com/">Kasey Caruthers</a> photography and in a way it is. However, my point is that there are other options available. We no longer have to enslave ourselves to the traditional cheesy background scenes and overpriced prints. I mean, seriously, there are way too many deals to be had with online print shops, why would I pay upwards of $15 for a 5x7? That's just insanity. I'm just saying, that's all. (Bonus point if you can tell me what movie that line comes from)Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-61938667268650859022010-11-29T15:02:00.000-05:002010-11-29T15:02:20.148-05:00New Column on Patch.com: Behind the CapeI know I mentioned the fact that I was going to start writing for the<a href="http://catonsville.patch.com/articles/when-the-best-laid-plans-go-awry"> Catonsville Patch</a>. Well, today marks my third column and the excitement has yet to wear off. Then again, neither has the nervousness. Luckily, God was looking out for me on Saturday night because he brought me the perfect circumstances as fodder for my musings. Isn't it funny how He works sometimes?<br />
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Today also marks the first comments from people I didn't already know. I don't know why but there's a sense of accomplishment rolled up in that first contact beyond your own little circles. The same thing happened when Strategic Victory brought in our first client that wasn't somehow connected to us. Not that it means I've arrived, but it just feels good, almost like a validation. Either way, I'll take it.<br />
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Well, it's a busy day today. Tomorrow I have 10 or so moms and their kids coming to play and my house is an utter disaster. I love Christmas and I love how my house looks at Christmas, but at this very moment, it sort of looks like Christmas vomited all over my living room. There's no order and it's driving me insane. Since I have a Central Committee meeting tonight, I think it might be best to get my butt in gear and put my house in order.<br />
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I only have about 2 hours and then it's time for Chick-fil-a. But Hillary, don't you guys normally go to CFA on Tuesday nights? Why yes we do. What a good observation there friend. Today just happens to be Receipt Day at CFA. Not sure if this is at every location or just mine. I'd like to think we're special, but I'm guessing not. Anyways, you go, you eat, you save your receipt. Then on December 13, you go, you show that same receipt, and you eat for FREE. Sweet deal, huh?Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-49967979612353508712010-11-23T23:58:00.000-05:002010-11-23T23:58:27.838-05:00The Neverending Story<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs280.snc4/40314_420296135145_639090145_5379953_575377_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs280.snc4/40314_420296135145_639090145_5379953_575377_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Someone please tell me that Blake will not be 18 and still peeing in his underwear. Seriously, I really need someone to tell me that. It's been months of this back and forth regression and I'm about to pull my last hair out. Just when we think he's on the upswing, he slides back down. It's the most frustrating thing in the world. Literally, I sit there thinking, "am I really that bad of a parent?" <br />
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Owen just decided one day he was done with underwear and that was that. Madison is starting to pee and poop on the potty without any coaxing, bribing or begging. But Blake? No, Blake just doesn't give a hoot. If he's too busy playing to stop and go potty, he just goes right there in his pants. And it doesn't seem to bother him that his pants are wet either. We've tried everything from praise to discipline. I'm at a complete loss. There are few things I can't conquer, but Blake and potties is going to be the straw that breaks my freaking back. <br />
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Any suggestions? Seriously, I'll take them. I mean if you want to borrow him for a couple days and bring him back fixed, I'm willing. Maybe that's it. Maybe I broke my child. <br />
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Tomorrow is another day. Is it sad that I pray for dry pants? I do. Every single flipping day, "Lord, please let Blake have a good day, learn more about you, and not relieve himself in his superhero underroos." <br />
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I feel like I'm stuck in a rendition of "The Song That Never Ends," sung to the tune of "Nanny Nanny Boo Boo" Am I part of some Gotcha reality TV show? If that's the case, you guys can jump out at anytime and replace the fake Blake with the real thing. <br />
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Do you sense my desperation yet? I need a solution, and short of selling him on the black market, I'm open to any and all advice. Thank you.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-9814460929236458762010-11-22T13:52:00.001-05:002010-11-22T13:52:44.646-05:00Check out my new column<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://assets0.patch-assets.com/images/splash/logo.png?1290448524" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://assets0.patch-assets.com/images/splash/logo.png?1290448524" /></a></div>It's no secret. I love to write and now I can finally do it beyond the simple musings of a blog. A couple of weeks ago I was given the opportunity to write a column for a new hyper-local online news source powered by AOL, Patch.com. Basically it breaks the news down by cities and towns. Catonsville has it's very own Patch site, and I have my very own column, "Behind the Cape." It's all about being a mom and a real one at that. I also get to share fun activities and great deals. What an experience!<br />
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You can <a href="http://catonsville.patch.com/articles/confessions-of-an-ungratefulholic">check it out </a>and let me know what you think. In fact, I'd love to hear from you in the comments section of the article. The more people read, the more I get to keep writing. And we all know that writing keeps me sane. This week's column is entitled <a href="http://catonsville.patch.com/articles/confessions-of-an-ungratefulholic">"Confessions of an Ungratefulholic."</a>Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-54039589702906298902010-11-21T22:06:00.000-05:002010-11-21T22:06:26.572-05:00A Shocking ConfessionI was rocked tonight by a shocking confession from a dear friend. It doesn't matter what was confessed or who did the confessing. The point is that this declaration had some serious ramifications for my psyche. Literally rocked me to the core. Do you want to know why? Because I realized that I'm not above it. I'm not immune from falling. I'm not untouchable. So often I watch a TV show or read an article on the internet about someone that has fallen from grace, and I think, "I would never do that." Truth is, I'm perfectly capable of sinning. I am after all a sinner. I'm so quick to judge others and yet I mask the evil in my own heart. In fact, I justify it. Why is it so easy to talk myself into doing what I know to be wrong and extremely difficult to talk myself out of it? Seriously, what is that? <br />
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The only good news to come out of tonight was the fact that, for the first time in a very long time, I felt close to God. For a microsecond I felt like I had never drifted away. I found myself begging God for mercy, not only for my friend but for myself as well. Now the test comes. Will I continue to spend time with Him? Will I carve out a few moments of each day to return to my knees before His throne of grace? Here's hoping, right?Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-13290559954529767032010-11-15T09:23:00.000-05:002010-11-15T09:23:37.013-05:00Here It IsIt's completely surreal to see your own name featured on the front page of a website that you didn't create. <a href="http://catonsville.patch.com/">Check it out</a> and let me know what you think. But don't post your comments here. Post them on the article itself. It helps my editor know that people are reading and engaging. However, if you absolutely hate it, then just maybe snicker to yourself and not make it public. My ego is a little fragile right now. <br />
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Thanks again for all the support. You guys are amazing.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-90711884587842840682010-11-14T22:42:00.000-05:002010-11-14T22:42:37.510-05:00A Done DealThat's it. As of 6 am tomorrow morning, I will be an official published columnist. The article is written, name chosen, picture uploaded. Now it falls into the hands of readers. Whether or not it is well received will likely determine if I get to continue writing. Do me a favor? Go and read it, even if it sucks, okay? I'll post the link when it's live. Prayers appreciated. I just dove in and there is no turning back.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-35002585216548984162010-11-13T09:25:00.000-05:002010-11-13T09:25:55.225-05:00This is it...my very own trip down the rabbit hole.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.saraparetsky.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/writers-block3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://www.saraparetsky.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/writers-block3.jpg" width="153" /></a></div>I've been thinking about it all week...what to write for my first column on the <a href="http://www.catonsville.patch.com/">Catonsville Patch</a>. Maybe I need to get one of those voice recorders so I don't get to this point and forget every flipping idea that has entered my head over the last couple of days. Call it nerves. Call it writer's block. Call it whatever you like, just pray that I can somehow find the words. Look at me, I can sit down and any moment on any of my other blogs and the words just flow freely. However you add a payment and an actual publication to the mix and it's like I'm mute. I know, who would have thunk? Me? Mute? <br />
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So what do I write about? It's my first ever paid writing gig. I will say, however, that it's certainly nice to know the topic. For a long time, I wasn't sure what I wanted to write about, hence the 4 million blogs I manage. The point is that I love to write. It's therapeutic for me, and if people happen to read it, that's just a bonus. Now the stakes are higher. If people don't read, I don't get to keep writing. Hhmmm, have I just stumbled upon the cause of my writer's block? Could I be afraid that I'm not actually that good at doing what I love? Shocking revelation peeps, I have insecurities. Why do I get the feeling I'm about the walk into a high school cafeteria buck naked? Risky.<br />
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All right, I have to just do it, dive in, and pray I know how to swim. Prayers appreciated. This is going to be a bumpy ride with a super secret and equally exciting destination. I'll let you know when it's up and running. I trust that, as my true friends, you'll give me honest and constructive feedback (while keeping my very fragile ego in mind). Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-12997497550589185732010-11-12T19:59:00.001-05:002010-11-12T19:59:37.707-05:00Worthwhile<p>Why is it that the people closest to us have the power to make us feel like dirt and a complete stranger or an old friend can lift us up with one kind word?  What is it about human nature that allows us to treat the people we love with such disrespect? Why do we have this uncanny ability to shut off our own humanity in order to ignore another’s?</p> <p>Then again, why do even we allow how we feel about ourselves to be dictated by the opinions of others?  Why do we put people on such pedestals with such high expectations that their doomed to fall and fall hard?  </p> <p>Despite what it may look like on the outside, there are times that I feel like a complete failure, failure as a wife, a mother, a housekeeper, a Christian.  You get the point.  Notice how I didn’t include my political life even though we just lost big time.  Or More than Moms or the neighborhood association?  Sometimes I think I bring these things into my life so that I have an outlet where I don’t feel like a complete loser, where I’m appreciated, where I’m more like a superstar.  Okay, maybe I’m reaching a bit, but again, you get the point.   </p> <p>One would have to argue though…Hillary, if you dropped all this other stuff, wouldn’t then have a ton of  time to invest in your family so that you weren’t such a big fat L?  While that may be a true statement, I’m not all that convinced that much would change.  Sure, my house and my kids would be cleaner.  I’d cook better meals and possibly be able to detach myself from my Blackberry, but wouldn’t I lose my identity in the process?  Don’t get me wrong, I love being a mom (really I do), but I’ve fought hard to not just be a mom.  I wanted to have an identity of my own, not just someone’s wife or mother.  I’m certainly no June Cleaver but I’m not Peggy Bundy either.  Maybe I’m going through my own little identity crisis right now…heck, maybe it’s a midlife crisis.  </p> <p>This morning I was sitting with a couple girlfriends talking about this very topic.  Where does our self worth come from?  The question arose:  What do you do when you doubt if God loves you?  One of the girls said that it didn’t seem like a relevant question to her because she’s never really struggled with it.  But when you look at it from a little different perspective, it’s a perfectly reasonable question.  </p> <p>If we’re seeking our self worth in the eyes of others, our husbands, our kids, our friends and colleagues, then maybe that reveals a deeper issue within us…maybe we do doubt in God’s love for us, at least in his unconditional love for us.  And that makes perfect sense to me.  Of course I struggle with understanding his unconditional love for me because the only love I can comprehend is conditional.  Love without reason is hard to find even amongst Christians.  We constantly tie strings to our affections and it seems that the closer we are to someone, the more strings there are.  I happen to believe that those strings are tied to expectations.  </p> <p>Whether we admit it or not, we set expectations for the people in our lives, normally much higher than they are even capable of attaining, and we get hurt.  We allow those unmet expectations to define us, to determine how we feel about ourselves.  It’s all one big fat lie, and yet we don’t recognize it.  Even I struggle to see that.  I allow myself to be hurt, to feel like a loser, to invite myself to countless pity parties for one.  Just because someone I love treats me like I don’t matter doesn’t mean that I don’t, right?  Why is it so hard to believe that? </p> Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-6197334683962335962010-11-10T14:57:00.000-05:002010-11-10T14:57:25.309-05:00A New Direction on the Same Old PathI know, I know, I've neglected my blog. Heck, I pretty much neglected everything in my life over the last couple of months. And for what? We lost the election. Don't worry, I haven't gone off the deep end, and I'm not buying a one way ticket to my very own pity party island. It is what it is, and to be quite honest, I have no regrets, or at least not many. <br />
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I never thought my path would lead me here. Politics? Neighborhood Association? Mom's Group? Who would have thunk? Looking back over the last year or so, I feel like I've stumbled upon myself. If only I would have had this amount of confidence in who I am way back in the day, who knows where I would have been. Don't get my wrong, I wouldn't trade my life for anything, but as you get older (and a bit wiser), you do start to wonder...what if I had made different decisions? What if I made more decisions on my own instead of on what other people expected of me? What if I had believed in myself and my potential? Of course I don't want any of this to come across as arrogant. I just feel like it took a very windy and crooked path in order for me to see the real me. Some people saw it way before I did, and I'm sorry I didn't believe them. Regardless of what path I took, I'm glad I'm here now. <br />
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I love politics. It's meaty and complicated, frustrating as all get out yet familiar and refreshing. Would it be easier to be back in Georgia where it's more red than blue? Absolutely, but would it be as challenging to my character? Probably not. Plus, here I get to be a somewhat medium fish in a very small pond. In a Red State, I'd be more like a minnow in a vast and wide ocean. <br />
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I love being a mom. Three kids under 6 presents its share of challenges. Believe me, there is never a dull moment. Sure, in most of those moments I'm left wondering if I'll have any hair left at the end. But as much I fought against it, I love that my identity is entwined in those three lovable bundles of energy and personality. <a href="http://www.meetup.com/more-than-moms">More than Moms</a> gives me the opportunity to not only fellowship with other moms, but to learn from and be shaped by their wisdom and even grow together through our triumphs and our mistakes. And now that More than Moms is taking on a great and exciting new cause, non-profitdom, I can't wait to see where we'll end up.<br />
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I love being a business owner. Strategic Victory Consulting has certainly surprised me over the last few months. What we thought would be a political venture has turned into so much more. We get to watch businesses grow, most of the time from tiny little sprouts. Betsy and I are both learning the extent of our skill sets and how they can work together for good, and not evil. He he he. If you want to know more about what we're doing, <a href="http://www.strategicvictoryconsulting.com/">check out our website</a>. While you're there, join our email list. <br />
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I love our neighborhood, as well as living in Catonsville. Close your ears, Mom. It's almost like we've found our home...at least for now. I haven't completely given up on the South, but Oak Crest and Catonsville have provided us with a place we can finally feel comfortable. From the house to the tree-shaded streets to the active community association (which I now lead...scary), it's like our own little slice of Mayberry, only less antiquated.<br />
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<b>And now for the gran finale...I love to write. And now I get the opportunity to do so and get paid. WHAT? I know, crazy, huh? There is this new hyper-local news source, powered by AOL, called Patch.com. <a href="http://www.catonsville.patch.com/">Catonsville has it's very own Patch site</a> and I will be a weekly columnist. No, I will not be writing about politics. I'm pretty sure I'm too biased for that. However, I will be writing about two other loves in my life...motherhood and deal seeking. My column launches early next week, so keep an eye out for that. My dad would be so proud. </b>Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-16211004754528227182010-09-01T09:05:00.001-04:002010-09-01T09:15:44.494-04:00Am I The Busiest Person in Baltimore?My friend Alicia posted this contest on my wall for the <a href="http://www.951shinefm.com/dynamic/DynCon.aspx?cid=297&fs=events">Busiest Person in Baltimore</a>. It's hosted by a local radio station, Shine 95:1 FM. Anyways, I decided to enter. The winner gets a free cleaning service. I'll take that. Here's my submission. What do you think? Would you vote for me?<br />
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"Oh my, I could totally use a cleaning service. My poor house is so neglected. I'm a work at home mom who barely has a second to think, much less clean. Not sure if I'm the busiest person in Baltimore, but I do get the question, "Hillary, how do you do it all?"<br />
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I have three kids. My oldest is 5, starting Kindergarten tomorrow, and my youngest is 19 months. They alone keep me pretty busy, but that's not the end of it. <br />
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I own my own business doing marketing and event planning for small businesses and political organizations, which I started a little over a month ago. I never expected it to take off so quickly. Most of my work gets done during nap time and after the kids go to bed. <br />
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Last year, I started a mom's group called More than Moms on meetup.com. It has over 100 members and we're about to go non-profit so we can work more with moms in need in the community. I'm the president and chief organizer. We do a couple outings a week, plus I spend several hours working on my responsibilities as president. <br />
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Wait, there's more. I also serve at the Communications Director for a local county council campaign. This takes up about 20 hours a week that I squeeze in when I can. Can you tell I don't sleep much? <br />
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As well, I serve as VP of my neighborhood association, which doesn't require too much of my daily time, but fluctuates from week to week. <br />
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Lastly, my husband and I are extremely active in a starter church in our community. We host a small group in our home once a week and I help plan the women's socials once a month.<br />
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As you can probably gather, I don't have a set schedule. Instead it's dictated by the needs of that day. Maybe it's playgroup at my house, or a heavy work load for my business, or a planning meeting for our neighborhood block party. I don't have a nanny and my kids aren't in childcare, so when most people are working during the day, I'm being a mom. Of course, I do try to sneak tasks and appointments in here and there, but my kids are my first priority. <br />
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I don't know how I do it all, but I know that I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing. God has made that very clear and He's always provided for my every need and the needs of my family. Somehow all of these things connect, like a spaghetti junction of sorts. It amazes me to see friends from church serving with me in the political realm, or women from my mom's group checking out our new church. I might be busy, but I know I'm blessed to be right in the middle of God's amazing plan."Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-49124688496202825692010-09-01T09:02:00.001-04:002010-09-01T09:07:37.478-04:00Kindergarten Zombie Mom<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs426.snc4/46905_428133030145_639090145_5599313_2837717_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs426.snc4/46905_428133030145_639090145_5599313_2837717_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>My little Owen starts school tomorrow. I've been so caught up in the hustle and bustle of school supplies and doctor's visits that I hadn't thought about the fact that my little boy is going to be in Kindergarten. As I walked the halls of Mini-ville (AKA the elementary school) yesterday shuffling from classroom to nurse's office to PTA meeting, I was very aware of how out of place I felt. Was I the only one who had absolutely no idea what she was doing? I must have looked like a complete zombie.<br />
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Owen, of course, was quiet and reserved, not sure he spoke a word from the time we entered the building until the time we left. Oh and in typical Hillary fashion we were late. Why? Because there were a few items on the supply list that I hadn't gotten. It helps to pay close attention to quantities. So we get there, load everything into his locker (They have lockers in Kindergarten?), and sneak into the back of the classroom. His teacher had all the kids sit on the big carpet at the front of the room as she oriented them to the layout of the room. Then she came to talk to us, the big people, while the other kids played quietly with puzzles, books, and blocks. Guess what I learned first? Turns out the supply list I had was wrong, so I was late for nothing, and I still have to go back to the store. Perfect.<br />
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Then there was more paperwork. Back in the Spring, at registration, I filled out paperwork for over an hour. No joke. Then they sent a packet with his teacher's name and information on orientation and such. Guess what? More paperwork. And now I have 4 more pages to fill out. Once we were done, we could turn them in, sneak out of the back, and make our way to the PTA meeting. As if I wasn't already feeling completely overwhelmed. They held the meeting in this tiny room. By the time I arrived, there wasn't even room to stand. A bunch of us hovered out in the hallway waiting for what we thought was a second wave. The room slowly began to clear and this clueless mom slinked her way towards the front. Yes, coffee. And then a woman, asking if I'd filled out my form yet, and do I have my check ready. Wait, what? There's only one presentation, but I missed the first one...cause I apparently I wasn't lost enough. It's a real good thing that my friend in the VP of the PTA. At least she can fill me in. Besides, I didn't have my check book on me and the PTA doesn't take Amex.<br />
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Defeated I made my way back to Owen's classroom to find him sitting alone on the floor. His teacher must think I'm the worst mom ever. First we're late then my kid's the last one there. Perfect. What a great way to make a first impression.<br />
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Amidst all this chaos, it still hadn't dawned on me that my little boy was going to kindergarten. KINDERGARTEN. Am I ready for this? Is his ready for this? I feel a bit like we're peeking over the top of the hill on a roller coaster. There's no turning back, but we're at that moment when I wish we could.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-18170106571422283232010-08-16T05:33:00.001-04:002010-08-16T05:33:54.409-04:00The Things We Do As MomsSo I'm sitting outside the Y nearly an hour before they open, just hoping I didn't get here too late to get Blake into the Tots program. Actually I've been here since 4:50 or so. When I arrived, there were already 15 to 20 people in line. Now it's wrapped around the building. I find myself eyeballing those in front of me. Are they here for Tots too? How many of them are after the four remaining Wednesday morning slots. Seriously, you'd think I was camping out for a Black Friday laptop deal. If it weren't so dark, I'd take a picture. It's crazy ridiculous what we'll do to make sure our kids get into a preschool program, a swim lesson or a sports class. Absolutely ridiculous. How insane do you have to be to roll out of bed at 4:20 and come sit on a curb at 5 in the morning just to get your child into a Y program? At least I'm not the only one. The parking lot is almost full now. Wow, after all this, I have to say I'll slip into depression if I don't get the spots I want. Crazy, right? If only it weren't such an awesome program, or if there were a comparable preschool with the same pricing plan? But there's not. This is it. There is no plan B. <br />
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I think the fact that I'm a work at home mom now adds to my desire to get him in. I'm sure it does. I woke up before my alarm went off because I was so paranoid that I wouldn't wake up to it. It there a 12 step program for overzealous moms? <br />
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Either way, it will all be over in about 30 minutes. I'll let you know how it goes.Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-19918924379840087632010-08-10T08:48:00.000-04:002010-08-10T08:48:51.309-04:00OverwhelmedI bet you're thinking I'm going negative with this blog. The title would surely imply that, right? Sure, there are times that I am completely overwhelmed. How could I possibly add yet another thing to my plate, much less a new business venture? Hillary, there literally is no time left. You run a mom's group. You're the Communications Director for a local campaign. You're part of a new church plant. You sit on the board of your neighborhood association. You're running for Central Committee. Oh yeah, and you have three kids five and under, a husband, a dog, a house, friends and family. Don't worry, I get it, but I've always felt like the Lord has been leading me and somehow they're all connected. I've talking about the "Spaghetti Junction" that is my life.<br />
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Truth is: I'm most productive when I'm so busy I can't breathe. On days that I have little on my calendar, I literally would sit and veg the entire day, translating into poor parenting, cranky wife, lousy housekeeper, and completely useless individual. The hills of chaos keeps me going, and I believe my Maker is clearly aware of that. Do I have to learn boundaries? Absolutely! Do I have to communicate better with my husband? Clearly! The point is that I'm overwhelmed and still completely filled with joy at the same time.<br />
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As Betsy and I venture down this road into the world of business, I'm constantly reminded that this is not my business. It belongs to God, period. He's made that clear from the beginning. The fact that we've only been in business for a few weeks says it all. Currently, we have six clients, and two more on the way in. Everyday, we're making new connections, exploring the realms of our abilities, and watching businesses and organizations build foundations that will help them succeed. It really is such an exciting opportunity and we're loving every second of it. <br />
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I might have to fit work into 10 minutes here and there, an hour or so at naptime, and sometimes into the wee hours of the night, but what we're doing matters to the companies and candidates we work with. There is such a need for what we do. We're seeing that small business owners know that they need to market, but lack the skills to do so and the finances to pay a large firm. We offer cost effective solutions that will help establish the foundation and facilitate the best kind of marketing, word of mouth. <br />
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Overwhelmed! Not only by the sheer amount of stuff on my plate, but more so by God's goodness. For some reason, he has chosen to bless this venture. He clearly has a plan. Our goal is to not only put him at the center, but to let him roam throughout every facet of what we do. If you're a praying person, you can pray to that end with us. Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-87891063032850084322010-07-28T07:59:00.000-04:002010-07-28T07:59:34.978-04:00Diving into business<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRJdt3UeUkiK5wuTPJ3pO_xkcSdsJW7KWDXehOISuY00b3OUJtUFu8xoAyyfKVigq90fL8ezORGkJlt0gZxPMW_LDKl1HP5gYFh-rpBkaBuNTNjtbfFH5BS5zmw6S5BkiSshrzmfIXCGA/s1600/strategic+victory+logo.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRJdt3UeUkiK5wuTPJ3pO_xkcSdsJW7KWDXehOISuY00b3OUJtUFu8xoAyyfKVigq90fL8ezORGkJlt0gZxPMW_LDKl1HP5gYFh-rpBkaBuNTNjtbfFH5BS5zmw6S5BkiSshrzmfIXCGA/s320/strategic+victory+logo.jpeg" /></a></div>If you've noticed the radio silence over the past two weeks, there is actually a good reason for it. My friend, Betsy, and I have launched a new business, <a href="http://www.stratgicvictoryconsulting.com/">Strategic Victory Consulting</a>. I know what you're thinking. Hillary, how could you possibly add one more thing to your plate? Do you not do enough already?<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs025.ash2/34636_139969216028176_139965186028579_287070_6499545_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs025.ash2/34636_139969216028176_139965186028579_287070_6499545_n.jpg" width="213" /></a></div>What do we do? We're two politically minded ladies with a vision to empower conservatives to victory. So how would we define victory? It doesn't have to be a political campaign. There are a myriad of conservative organizations and small businesses that need help marketing themselves, but often lack the time and budget to do so. Whether candidates, incumbents, organizations or small businesses, we're offering up our expertise in marketing, event planning and fundraising in a budget-friendly way. <br />
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Personally, I'm stoked about where this will take us. It's always been my goal to go back to work when the kids get in school. My goal would be that by 2014, when Madison heads off the Kindergarten, we'll be an established business with a steady income and even an office decorated with cute little purple elephants. <br />
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Why the purple elephant? We're not naive. We live in Maryland, a deep blue and heavily liberal state. Our vision is to see it become more a shade of purple than red, more of a two party state. <br />
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Today, we meet with a potential supplier and possible customer. It's my first official business meeting. Tonight, we're heading to Howard County to our first networking event, at least professionally. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs091.ash2/37913_140687635956334_139965186028579_290089_8269753_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs091.ash2/37913_140687635956334_139965186028579_290089_8269753_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>It's been such a whirlwind. Just over a week ago, we were sitting on the beach in Ocean City brainstorming about this venture. Now, it's a full fledged reality. Of course, we're a God-centered company and we believe this is the path we've been asked to take. We covet the prayers of our friends and family, as politics is not exactly a cheery, bright place to work. We hope to show people that you can work in this arena and maintain your faith and integrity. And we can't do it without a network of supporters. So, I'm asking each of you to stand by us, hold us accountable, and pray for us regularly. Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886228091662053230.post-22411767183404602352010-06-23T08:03:00.000-04:002010-06-23T08:03:31.495-04:00It's a Start<a href="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs089.snc4/35807_406924395145_639090145_5014874_4984279_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs089.snc4/35807_406924395145_639090145_5014874_4984279_n.jpg" width="200" /></a>I did it. I bought a new Bible and journal. Yesiree, I did! And they're pretty too. I have a feeling, though, that was the easy part. Now I must open them and start to process of learning how to connect with God again. After my post yesterday, Christy and Jen both left comments involving scripture. So this morning, I decided to start there. Of course, despite the fact that I was up early, Owen wasn't far behind me. But I did get about 15 minutes to read through Luke 13:34 and Psalm 130. The one word that stuck out to me, that ironically isn't mentioned in either passage, is repentance. I think I"ll chew on that for a while. <br />
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What's on the schedule for today? Well, here's what I hope it is. We'll see what actually happens. First I'd like to go to the gym for a quick work out. Here's hoping they have a space for Madison right at 9. Then I'm heading over the the Trolley Trail for Stroller Brigade. Hopefully someone else will show up. I'm just not inclined to walk all by myself with three kids. Doesn't sound like an ounce of fun. Then, I have to head to Staples to make 400 newsletters for my neighborhood. Last, I hope we end up at the pool. Now, this will be my first time venturing off to the pool without the helpful hands of my husband. You guys can definitely pray for that. The good news is that, besides Stroller Brigade, there isn't anywhere I really have to be at any particular time, so all of this is fluid. The bad news is that there isn't anywhere I really have to be at any particular time, so all of this is fluid. See where I'm going with that? Let's just hope I don't give up and decide to sit at home and stare at a wall all day. Hillary Penningtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821023475236656627noreply@blogger.com1